Sunday, November 26, 2017

Thanksgiving recap

We just returned from a quick trip to NC/SC for Thanksgiving. The last time we came out to celebrate the holiday was 9 years ago, when Anya had just turned 1. We were overdue for another holiday visit.

We arrived Monday afternoon and spent a relaxing evening with Don, Koby, and Alivia, catching up. The cousins hadn't seen each other in over 2 years. Initially, they were shy around each other (for maybe 2 or 3 minutes) and then quickly bonded over the cat and were buddies the rest of the week.

Tuesday morning, we drove to mom and Bruce's, visited for a bit at the house, and then enjoyed a yummy lunch. Then we had to get on the road to SC, where I needed to get started on food prep. I wish we had thought to get photos while with mom and Bruce. Next time!

Wednesday morning, we went with dad, Angie, and dogs for a walk in their great neighborhood park. Then I set about making pies while Anya, Chris, and dad went fishing in the little neighborhood pond. I don't believe they were expecting to catch anything, but they had lots of luck. Anya caught at least one catfish.



Later on, Matt/Heidi/Gabby and Don/Koby/Alivia arrived. Everyone spent the night so they could be up early to get started on the turkey. We all had terrific BBQ and caught up, and the girls doted on Gabby.

Thursday, mom & Bruce, as well as Danielle/Ollie/Bennett arrived. It was a full house and a wonderful Thanksgiving feast. The kids all ran around and they seemed to have a great time. I think there was also more fishing. Afterwards, Mom & Bruce, Danielle, and the boys, and Don and Koby went back home. We kept Alivia one more night and Matt and family also stayed.

cousins

The next morning, we headed to Greenville. They have a sweet little zoo and we killed about an hour there. It was pretty impressive how nice the zoo was for being in a small city. Afterwards, we went out for tacos and then to downtown Greenville. They have an amazing park in the center of the city. Dad, Angie, and I looked at art, while the others played down near the river, and then we all walked for a bit. I had heard Greenville was pretty, but was still blown away by how lovely the downtown was. It's someplace we want to explore more of the next time we're in the area.

 at Falls Park on the Reedy

 Thumb-wrestling with Uncle Matt at lunch

getting some Gabby time at the zoo

Then we all headed back to Dad and Angie's where we said our goodbyes and drove back to Charlotte. Another relaxing evening with Don, Koby, and Alivia, before we flew back home the next morning.

It was good to see family and we miss everyone already.

Saturday, November 11, 2017

Halloween and Birthday Party

We survived both Halloween and Anya's first slumber party.

As has been the custom for the last few years, Anya waited impatiently for October 1 to finally arrive, so she could take out all the Halloween decorations and transform the front yard into a spooky, cobweb-filled graveyard. Usually, we add one new decoration per year. Last year was the addition of an LED projector, where we projected Halloween scenes through the window. This year, Chris, our neighbor, and the kids created the Haunted Alley. It was their first go at it and I'd say it was a huge success. Chris/Anya strung up lights, sheeting, and some decorations, and we used the projector to show spooky scenes through our alley gateway.



The neighbor/kids a few houses down built an impressive Haunted Maze. Anya and the kids worked in it to scare trick-or-treaters as they came through (or only slightly spook the little kids). 

We had a few school families/friends over for a pre-funk. Afterwards, the adults followed behind our trick-or-treating kids with a wagon full of adult libations. This proved to be very popular with other parents, as we were kind enough to share. A fun night for sure. More neighbors are interested in helping out with the alley project next year and making it bigger and better. And we have plans to improve the Booze Wagon too. 

Oh yeah. Anya dressed up as Elizabeth Swan (pirate version) from Pirates of the Caribbean




Five days later, we hosted Anya's first slumber party. She invited all the girls in her class, plus Eva and Eloise. Honestly, it was pretty great. We fed them pizza, had a glowstick dance party in the basement, part of a movie until they played their favorite game, Ghost-Ghost and ran around. They eventually all fell asleep and got more sleep than I expected they might. Then a big pancake breakfast, more movie, and a silly string fight in the snowy front yard. The girls were well-behaved and seemed to have a blast. I would host one of these again, even with that many kids. 

Pizza for victory


Anya setting up the "laser" obstacle course


 Happy Birthday Kazoo

Glowstick dance party

Sunday, October 29, 2017

Happy Birthday!

Happy 10th Birthday, kid! Double-digits!


Today, Anya is celebrating her tenth year with a sleepover with her buddy/honorary Lodwig, Eloise. This morning, we joined other members of the Scheuer clan for a 5k at Magnuson (for pancreatic cancer research, in support of Chris's Aunt Peggy). Afterwards, Grandma and Grandpa Lodwig (forever affectionately known as "Crappa Crappa") took her out for lunch and to pick out her birthday present. This evening, we'll all have dinner together at Crappa Crappa's like we have almost every week for the past ten years. Anya's request is cioppino, plus lemon curd cheesecake for dessert.

Next Saturday, we'll continue the celebration with her first full slumber party. She invited all the girls in her class, plus Eloise and Eva, and I think somewhere around 10 can come. Chris and I are either brave or stupid, but we'll get through it. I'd rather not think about it until I have to, so will instead focus on Anya's current stats:

School: Fourth grade is going well. Third grade more or less whipped her into shape. She's pretty good about writing down homework in her planner and keeping up with everything without too much parental harassment. She's overcoming some minor struggles in math and is doing well in all subjects. She says her favorite subjects are P.E. and Art. The classroom just got several crayfish and her job (not sure if it's just this week or if she will always get to) has been to clean out the tank and care for them - which she has been beyond thrilled to do - happily skipping recess to spend time with the class pets.

Socially, not much change. The kids in her grade are pretty clique-y, but she gets along with everyone for the most part. She and a few girls have started another fundraising group "Forevergreen Baskets" during recess, this time raising money for the Red Cross. They've been using recycled materials and making baskets and other items, running it like a small business. It's caused some problems, as 3 of the 4 girls  (Anya being one of the 3) have strong opinions and want to lead. There have been arguments and feelings have gotten hurt -- to the point where their teacher put the group on hiatus. But I think/hope it's been a good learning experience for them (socially and entrepreneurially) and they raised some money. I also think taking a break was a good call.

She tells us that having so few girls in her grade - 9, including her - is starting to wear on her a bit, wishing there was someone that shares some of her interests or to at least get a bit of a break from her closest friend/"frenemy" in class. Her best friend is Eloise, but she's 2 years ahead and they don't really hang out at school. We love St. Catherine but might consider a change of scenery for middle school, after next year. We'll at least see what our options are. It'll be tough to beat what St. C. can offer, but the social stuff is important too.

Yesterday was the final game in girls soccer. Chris coached them again and it was another great season, Chris' favorite so far. Anya's big advancement in soccer this year was overcoming the urge to get angry as a result of the various injustices which occur during games, to the point where she would simply stop playing.  This year I've heard her say that she needs to get back out there because the team needs her etc.  She plays hard, she runs fast like her dad (when she remembers to do so) and has improved a lot.  She's even won two of the "play like a champ" bracelets which the other team offers to opponents who show good sportsmanship. This, above all, is what makes Chris proud.

Other after-school activities this year: jumping rope (she is great at it and was invited to join a competitive team. Unfortunately, practices are way across town and traffic at that time of day is terrible. For now, she's taking an after-school class at a nearby-ish school. If she's still as into it in coming years, we can revisit the team idea). Coding: she's doing an after-school class, did a summer camp, and after-school classes last year. She loves it. Still learning Scratch, and at an intermediate-advanced level. Next up is Python when she's mastered Scratch and coding logic.  Basketball season is coming up soon so we'll see how that goes.  She was Snow White in the 3rd-grade play, so we're interested to see if she'll take a more active role this year in the school play.  Then there will be volleyball, and track and field, which the kids get to start in 4th grade. She's especially excited about learning volleyball.

Future Job: I just asked and Anya says she wants to be a veterinarian when she grows up.

Likes: forever and always obsessed with animals. and fishing.  She's the only girl we know who gets angry on a weekly basis if we refuse her the opportunity to go fishing.  She watches shows about fishing, and we've even caught her reading Field and Stream.  This also makes dad very proud...mom, not so much.

Her tastes lean toward the traditionally "nerdy". For movies, she loves Lord of the Rings and Pirates of the Caribbean.  She is a voracious reader and will stay up late into the night reading books like the Hunger Games, and the Percy Jackson books (not letting her watch the movies yet...in a few years).

She's also a fantastic writer.  She loses steam after a couple of pages so she doesn't finish much, but she's always coming up with interesting storylines, and extremely detailed descriptions of things.  She's a bit dark and likes to write spooky stories. Chris is writing a novel right now, and he has, on several occasions asked for help when he gets stuck, and she has provided some of the best ideas in his book.

Musically, her favorite genre is instrumental movie scores. She says they are dramatic and she feels a lot of emotion when listening to them. We canceled her piano lessons this year since we couldn't get her to practice.  But she does watch YouTube videos which teach her how to play said movies scores and she seems to really enjoy that...plus its free.

Favorite foods (as of this morning): Chicken and Bread Salad, Cioppino, Cheesecake, Pumpkin Pie, and Pumpkin Cinnamon-Swirl Bread. (She didn't say sushi, but we all know that's in there, and she goes through goldfish crackers like their time on this earth is running out)

Early this summer we bought her a wristwatch with a GPS tracker and speakerphone capabilities.  This has afforded her a much greater range of freedom.  She generally walks around the blocks alone (no other kids seem to share her freedom) or she'll take off and walk the 5 blocks to Dahl field to play.  We're also more willing to leave her home alone for up to an hour, which she seems to love.

Adjectives that currently describe her: funny/punny, energetic, dramatic, moody, creative, and curious. Love her.







Friday, September 22, 2017

Laika 12/16/2005 - 9/21/2017

Very sadly, we had to say goodbye to our beloved Laika yesterday. She was our first baby and the best dog - full of affection, gentle, smart, and a good "big sister" and playmate for Anya.  I hope wherever she is, there are unlimited tennis balls, treats, and games of tug-o-war. We miss her terribly and feel a huge void. I love you, Laikadog-puppyfrog.

 one of the first days after we got her. The Scoobydoo pillow was her lovey and came with her from the dog rescue. 

12 weeks old. 
Racing the sled, 3 years old

taken yesterday morning (11-3/4 years)

Friday, September 1, 2017